Japan is known for its exceptional hospitality – also called omotenashi – which means a deep respect for others and an attention to detail in every interaction. As a visitor, embracing this spirit of kindness and courtesy not only shows appreciation for local customs but also makes each encounter more meaningful.
To help you travel thoughtfully and connect more deeply with the people you meet, our experts have gathered some helpful tips on what to do (and what to avoid) as you explore. With these in mind, you’ll return home with not only wonderful memories but a true sense of the beauty of Japan.
“Japanese people are incredible and take such care not to be rude. They’re so cognizant of other people’s comfort, be it at work, in public areas, or anywhere else.”
— Akshay Maggu, Enchanting Travels Japan Specialist
Things You Must Do in Japan
Let’s start with what you should do in Japan. Simple gestures can go a long way, leading to genuine smiles and more meaningful interactions.
- Do keep noise down – Whether you’re at a temple, on a train, or in a restaurant, quieter behavior is the norm. Japan’s most beautiful places invite reflection, so save video calls for later and soak in the moment instead.
- Do be adventurous – Say “yes” to new experiences, especially when it comes to food. Some dishes may look or smell unfamiliar – even compared to Japanese restaurants at home – but trying them shows openness and respect and might just lead to a new favorite meal.
- Do learn some Japanese – Even a few basic phrases can make a big difference. Japanese is easier to pick up than you might think as it’s not a tonal language, and locals will be delighted to hear you make the effort. Words like arigatō (ah-ree-gah-toh) which means “thank you” or sumimasen (soo-mee-mah-sen) which means “excuse me” can turn everyday exchanges into moments of connection.
- Do bring slip-on shoes – You’ll often be asked to remove your shoes before entering temples, traditional inns, or private homes. Shoes that are easy to slip on and off make sightseeing much easier, and show respect for this time-honored custom.
What Not to Do in Japan
And now, let’s look at what to avoid doing. Observing a few simple social rules will ensure you’re seen as a considerate guest. And don’t worry, no one expects perfection. Simply showing that you care goes a long way.
- Don’t smoke – Smoking has become increasingly uncommon in Japan, and it’s considered impolite to do so in public, or in your hotel room. If you choose to smoke, limit it to designated areas. In a country where health and cleanliness are highly valued, the less smoke, the better.
- Don’t be late – In Japan, punctuality is both a sign of respect and a way to keep pace with a culture that runs like clockwork. Trains, reservations, and even tours operate precisely on schedule. Plan ahead for snacks or rest stops so you can arrive on time and stress-free.
- Don’t tip – Even with the best of intentions, tipping can create an embarrassing moment for your server or guide. It simply isn’t part of Japanese culture, even for exceptional service. If you’d like to express gratitude, a small gift is always appreciated.
“The best gifts are small, nicely packaged items that represent where you’re from. Locally made sweets or something unique to your hometown like a Statue of Liberty keychain are a great choice. When giving the gift, wait until the end of your time together then use both hands and make a small bow.”
— Heather Alcott-Moritz, Enchanting Travels Japan Specialist
- Don’t block exits – Whether you’re in an elevator or on a train, be mindful of others entering and exiting. Step aside to let people pass easily. Rushing in before others have stepped off is a quick way to stand out for the wrong reason.
- Don’t litter – This applies in every destination, but especially in a country that takes pride in its cleanliness. You’ll notice that public trash cans are rare, so we recommend carrying a small bag to store your garbage until you are able to dispose of it properly. It’s a small effort that shows great respect for your hosts and their environment.
Japan Dos and Don’ts
Following these simple dos and don’ts will help you experience Japan not just as a visitor, but as a caring guest. It’s all about embracing the country’s deep-rooted culture of respect and appreciation for detail, two of the qualities that make Japan so welcoming and easy to explore.
If Japan is calling, our team would love to help you start planning your journey. Speak with one of our travel experts today and begin creating a trip that’s seamless, fully customized, and filled with moments you’ll treasure for a lifetime.